That way neither one of you are overwhelmed too early in the relationship.7. Sometimes playing the dating game is like playing a slot machine.It's attractive with its many colors and sounds, but always uncertain.Let's say you're looking for a guy that has an interest in theater; then join a local theater group or hang out at local venues frequented by theater lovers.If your dream lover is a body builder, then spend more time at the gym, because more than likely that's where he'll be most of the time.4. Are you the life of the party or do you like to sit on the sidelines?Adam De Vine and Chloe Bridges at the Why Him Premiere at Regency Vanessa Hudgens Anna Sophia Robb Chloe Bridges and Victoria Justice all attended the Fall Alice Olivia presentation in New York City last night .Baby Chloe bridges the generation gap for Gorleston and Repps with Shine On Media Camp Rock co stars Chloe Bridges and Meaghan Martin smile together at Paramount Studios for Variety s rd Annual Power of Youth Event . If you don't normally smile, try giving guys a quick grin. So, if you're meeting the wrong type of guys (or the same type), try changing your attitude.
Take your time getting to know one another and let the details of your life and your emotions unfold naturally.
If you give off an air of arrogance, try loosening up a bit. Right if you don't have a vision of what he looks like? This may sound like a silly exercise, but a few minutes with a pad and paper can help you focus on finding the right man for you.
A little self-reflection and image adjustment can go a long way.2. Not long ago I wrote down the hair color, height range, ethnicity, and build of my ideal date and it's amazing how many guys I meet that fall within my "list." But don't just stop there - life isn't all about physical qualities. Sometimes the cosmos have a way of surprising us.3. You wouldn't look for pasta sauce in the frozen food aisle of the grocery store would you? So why do most gay men look for specific types of guys in the wrong places.
Since everyone's waiting to be approached, there's no one doing the approaching; which is why it's not uncommon to go to a gay party and see everyone standing around in their own corners like at a middle school dance. Find a guy you like and try starting a conversation. Now that you're ready to walk up to a guy, what are you going to say to him?
To many gay men, the thought of doing this is terrifying, but with practice it will get more comfortable. Well, in my experience two angles work best: breaking the ice and then finding something in common. Find something unique about him (article of clothing, jewelry, hair style), then comment on it. Instead of saying, "I like your hair cut" try phrasing it in a way that will make him smile or continue a conversation.Of course, there's the potential of hitting the jackpot, but unless you're extremely lucky you have to play more than a few coins to hit big.